I am the woman who has spent more time being single than being in relationships, and I recently became single once again. I really thought that he was the one, but that was far from the truth. The first few months after the breakup, things were rough, but now I realize that even though relationships are fun, I love being single.

When I am single, I can fully focus on the person that matters the most: me. I can use my time to work on becoming my best self without the distractions of a romantic partner.

I am happy being single because my life grows and develops in ways I never thought possible. I stay busy working on my life, and I love every minute of it. I am building a life that I truly enjoy. I have goals, dreams, and ambitions, and none of them involve looking for a man to be with me.

I’m happy doing everything alone. I choose my own adventures. I can venture out alone. I am happy because I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, and I have to say, it’s pretty fantastic. I can stay at home and do nothing, or I can go on a spontaneous trip if the mood strikes. I just go with the flow and wander where life takes me. I never have to check in with anyone. I never have to adjust my plans to fit someone else into my schedule.

I’m happy being single because I have all the freedom in the world in front of me. I’m not willing to give that up for any man. I don’t want a man to tie me down or hold me back. I’m a wild woman with an adventurous heart. I want to explore, travel, and live my best life. I’m not a traditional woman, and I’ll never live a normal life, so any man who pursues me must show me that he can enhance my already awesome life.

I am happy being single because I find ways to love myself more and more every day. All of my love and affection goes inward and warms my own heart.

I am happy being single because I can do things in my own time. I don’t have to settle down or marry by a certain age. I don’t have to rush or chase love. I can focus on becoming a better me so that I can attract a better next. 

When I’m single, I deposit every ounce of my energy into my self-investment bank. I am saving my own personal wealth. Instead of focusing on the superficial, I’m looking for substance and adventure. When I’m single, I focus on my goals, my health, my gains, my future, and my relationship with God.

I am happy being single because I don’t let my relationship status determine my happiness or my worth. I know that one day, soon or later, I will meet my perfect match.

Until then, I will spend my days as a single woman evolving, growing, learning, and doing anything that brings peace to my soul and fills my heart with joy.